2014

Happy New Year! How often have you already heard this today? I heard it 17 times yet and nobody knows how many people forgot to say it today and will tomorrow. 

I love New Starts. I love Changes. I love new ideas. That’s everything a New Year offers. It’s the First Day of the Year and I woke up so full of new ideas. Something new is the chance to get a new chance. I started to read a book in the last days of 2013. It’s about a woman, how does one good deed every day for one year. It made me think of what I could do in 2014.

Today I got a brainwave for this year. I wanted to take a picture every day. 356 pictures of 2014. I loved the idea from the beginning and thought about creating a blog to publish one picture everyday so I could show my actions to everyone. 

I told my family and boyfriend about this and he was like “it’s kind of weird to publish your whole life in the internet”. This was like a punch in the face, because I thought it was so perfect and he just didn't feel my joy about it. My idea was maybe impossible because I wouldn't even have enough time to do so. I laid in my bed for like an hour thinking about the next year. What if I wouldn't do a photography blog? What if I would just not document my entire life every day? All the diaries, blogs, photo albums and every sheet of paper which I filled with my thoughts, dreams and feelings about life became a huge pressure for me since a while. So I got that it wouldn't be the right way to continue like this. I decided to do the opposite. To stop writing and blogging and documenting every little step I will do in 2014. I would stop to talk about myself all the time and start to listen to all the others. I would start to support them and stop to wait for their support for my dreams. 

Finally I added the sixth and last point to my New Year Resolutions:

1. I will Fight for Love and Friendship.
2. I will Have less fears and worries.
3. I will Be funnier.
4. I will Not repeat small and large mistakes.
5. I will To stay myself.
6. I will Get inspired.

April. Again.

Dear Secrets&Quotes-Reader,

I'm back. A couple things happened in the last month, that's why I wasn't posting. I'm sincerely Sorry. :/

But NOW I'm gonna post again, and divulge some of the Secrets from the past...
Because so many secrets are in our life.

Love ya

S. A. Fink ♥♥♥

The NEW Era

Hello my lovely Audience,

I'm inaugurating a new Era. Are you excited yet? I promise you will.
If not... maybe you just don't get my humor. Oh dang... now I already let it out: My New Era is gonna be funny. At least for me. Just kidding.
I'm serious. I will change. Almost everything will be something from my life for your life to give you a small taste of the ridiculousness of Life.

Whatever is happening, I bet there can be something funny in every moment. Except funerals. They are sad. And natural catastrophe in a Third World country. That's horrible.

And for some of you, there will still be some Quotes in between.
Secrets will be there too. But you might not get, that I'm talking about them, 'cause they will be hidden in a joke. Isn't that exciting?

Visit my Blog tomorrow and Check out what the New Era really means.

♥♥♥

Leaving the worst thing or something good?

"But I have to leave and you have to release 'cause the end of something good can be the beginning of something better There's something new I know it's cruelI don't want to leave you behind But sometimes we have to go we have to go our own ways" 

The good thing about saying 'Good-Bye's is that you can look forward to see those people again. But  what should you do if you are not able to see them again? 

It is really hard, but how i said it can be the beginning of something better. At least something new.

♥♥♥

Intentions for the New Year

For 2013

I decided to make a list of things what I will change in the New Year:

1. I will not be selfish anymore. It's really important to me that I finally start (probably too late, but better than never) to care more about others than about myself.
2. I will concentrate on the school more. I know everybody says that every year over and over again, but I actually really have the plan to study. If you know me, You know studying is a hard thing for me. 
3. I will be nicer. It includes especially my family and my friends. They deserve a nicer me, for always being there for me.
4. I will finish a Book. I started that over and over again, but my New Goal is that i actually finish a Book now, that I finally have a whole Script then.
5. I will improve presents that I give. Less money, but more work, time and personal feelings.
6. I will read the book what my friend gave to me. I don't know why, but I love to write, but didn't even read one whole book in the last Year.
7. I will write more posts on my Blog and you are in charge to control that. I hope I will do a good job.
8. I will share more Love with everybody I meet. 
9. I will buy a New Camera and take tons of pictures of myself. Haha. Just kidding. Of others and Landscapes of course.
10. I will try so hard to abide all my NEW INTENTIONS FOR 2013!

What are your Intentions? Happy New Year to everyone! 

♥♥♥

Sorry

"I'm sorry. Sorry, for behaving like a bitch. I have been so selfish. I only think about myself. Only care about me. I feel guilty. Guilty, for not being there for others. Not caring about their problems. Not listening. I'm so sorry."

It has been a while... Life is busy. But being busy, what does that mean? I didn't even have time, to write down some Secrets or Quotes for a long time? Well, that's not what we call busy today.
The funny thing about the word busy is, that we actually use it for everything today, except being busy. We think it's an easy excuse for not answering on messages, not helping others and not listening.

Maybe at some point we should stop saying we are busy and care more about others than about our selves.

♥♥♥

The End

It's over. We are done.
Whose fault is it? His or mine?
I guess both. Well, It's actually more his fault, because if he wouldn't behave like that, I would not have ended it.

Now since it is over, he maybe realized what he did. He ignored me when we were together. It was like he wasn't even there when we were sitting next to each other.
Now he is starring at me the whole time and tries to make me jealous.
Everyday I have to see how he talks to every Girl and pretends to has really much fun. He looks then to me and laughs really much.
What do I think about it?
Well, I do not care. I don't care if he has fun. I don't care if he hugs other girls. I have a better life without him. I have something new. I found a good way out of it.

This is what I wrote to my friend about the End.
"Wir wollen alle eine Liebesgeschichte wie Blair&Chuck haben. Ich habe meinen CHUCK gefunden. Doch ich musste leider feststellen, dass ich nicht BLAIR bin... und auch nicht sein will."
"We all want to have a Love story like Blair&Cuck. I found my CHUCK. But unfortunately I had to realize that I'm not BLAIR... and I also don't want to be her."

Bye, I love you. ♥♥♥