Wednesday, April 03, 2013

Do what you want


Imagine a situation. You are a girl. You hang out with a boy a lot. Suddenly he stops talking to you. But you would feel stupid if you start talking to him. It doesn't matter if you like him more than friends or not. This is just what i tell you to do, K?
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So first of all. You are NOT stupid. I don't know what's wrong with him, but he actually is the stupid one if he is not talking to you. And I don't mean, it's stupid of him to not talk to you. I mean he is stupid because of all the fun he is missing while not talking to you. But that's his problem. But still, I think you should go there and talk to him. Ask what's going on. Go for what you want, baby! If you want something, then just go and take it.
I know it's fine for you to just be friends, right? Well, maybe... (and this is just a possibility)... maybe he thinks you like him more than friends. I can imagine the feeling he would have. Sometimes I'm afraid that person could like me more than i do. Then i stop talking to the person, that he doesn't get the wrong impression. Really. And if you never talk to him, you can never find out. Just let him know that you don't like him more than friends. (In case you like him more than friends still do so, even if it's not true.) But if you don't want that, then don't do it. Just saying. Here is a little trick that could help. Tell the boy he is your best friend, like your brother or you just tell him about another guy you like. Then he won't think you like him. He won't think it's more than friendship. Because you wouldn't date your brother, right? (At least i wouldn't...)
What I'm telling you: You don't want to regret anything for being too shy to talk to someone. I regret many situations from my past when i was too shy. I really do. But it's okay. If you just are like that now. .... So just do what you want, do whatever you think is right. Don't hurt anybody. Yeah, don't do that, it's not a good thing. and ... uhm... be happy!

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