At least live your dream

When i was a little child I always wanted to be a painter when I'm an adult. After that I wanted to be a singer. I changed my decision to be a Designer. Between all that jobs I always dreamed of being an popular author.
Now, I know that I'm not going to be any of these. Just because I'm not good enough in every single hobby.
Did anybody of you have that kind of dreams, too?
Something you know you can never be, but you just hope it will happen?
Many people always say the quote

"Live your dream" 

but, what does it actually mean for the real life.
Should somebody who can't swim try to go to the Olympics?
Should somebody colorblind become a painter?
Should somebody super small become a basketball player?

Well, if they want to, why not?

Somebody can learn how to swim and work out everyday and try.
Somebody can draw with a pencil and create wonderful pictures.
Somebody could train hard and still make it to be a small Basketball player.

So, don't give up when you are not yet the best after the first try. And don't give up your dream.
It's gonna make you happy, to do something you always wanted to do. Just do it. (And no, I'm not making a commercial for Nike...)
But don't give up and at least do one thing. Live your dream.

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Never ever let anyone...

Hey Guys.
There's something important I need to tell you. It's something what probably many of you have ever struggled with and her is a little advice from me.
It's your Love Life. I know some of you will think: "Hey, which Love Life are you talking about? My last date is more than a year ago."
Well, this advice is not only for those who are dating someone right now. It's something in general.

Never ever let anyone influence your love life!

And I really mean never. Because here's the thing. ... No wait. Let me ask you a couple of questions first.

Who is mainly influenced by your love life?
Who is the person who does the most in your relationship?
Who is getting heart broken if he/she breaks up?
Who are the people enjoying the relationship the most?
Who is putting trust in another person?

If you answer most of these questions with my partner or me, you are on the right track.

Let's go on. So we figured out that you or your partner are the 2 persons who have to do the most with the whole Love thing between you guys. In other words. It's only you and your partners business.So don't let anybody else influence your Love life. You never know the reasons they are telling you to do what they think you should.
Imagine you have a friend who was just cheated on. The person would probably tell you 'Love is shit'.
Another one who just got a date would maybe tell you just try, try, try. You can't loose anything.

I'm not telling you, you can't get advise from anybody. Cuz what the heck am I doing then now...
I wanted to say. be careful who you listen to, because it's your Love Life and you are the one who is going to get hurt or will have the most beautiful time. You never know.
Ask your friends and family for help. But decide on YOUR OWN!

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I'm wondering about guys (Part 2)

In "I'm wondering about guys (Part 1)" I talked about how the steps go when a guy meets a girl until he walks away.
The point why guys walk away after they got you is pretty easy. They get bored. And do you know why?
Because they don't have to chase you anymore. They don't have to do anything anymore and they don't need to fight anymore. So why working on something what you can have anyway?

The thing is. And that is pretty easy. There are 3 types of girls. Only in that case. All in all there are more types. But they come:

1. The stupid Girl. She meets a boy. She waits until he tries to get her. She rejects him once. He keeps trying. She falls in love. She loves him. He gets bored. He walks away. She cries 2 months. She thinks it was her fault. She feels guilty because he broke her heart.

2. The bitch. She plays with guys. For a reason. She doesn't want them to get her, because she already knows they walk away after she let's them catch her. She never let's anyone come close to her heart. That's why she has so many boys, because she keeps the boys chasing her.

3. The Smart Girl. She wants to fall in love. With a boy who she loves. But she knows boys. She doesn't want to let them get her at the first time. So she does the things that the boy chases her. But in the moment when the boy does super cute things to her, she accidentally falls in love with him. She didn't expect that, but it just happened to her. And so the circle goes on. The boy gets bored. But she does the thing. She tells him, it can't be like that. She hates when he gets bored, so she walks away from him. He can't stand when a girl walks away from him. He chases her again. But she knows he is an asshole. She doesn't want to let him get her again. But she does, because he is cute and she loves him. He gets bored again. He does stupid things to her. She walks away. She thinks it's forever. But we all know what is going to happen again...

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I'm wondering about guys (Part 1)

Something is really confusing me about Boys.
It is the fact, that they are always super cute, before they get you, and then, they suddenly don't even care about you anymore.

So I found out why it is that they are behaving this weird.
It's actually pretty easy.

Boy meets girl.
Boy talks to girl.
Girl is not interested.
Her rejecting creates his interest.
Boy chases her.
Boy likes her.
Boy does super cute things.
Girl falls in love.
Girl gives him a chance.
Boy gets bored.
Boy walks away.

Girl is hurt.

Why and how is that happening? Find it out here on January 23

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I would give...

"I would give anything to you."
Is it a promise? Is it Secret? Is it a threat? Or is it the most beautiful thing what a man can say to a woman?
Well i choose the last option.
If you love someone, then it's the greatest thing if the person chooses you to be the one person in their life. It's the most amazing feeling what you can have.

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To be loved

" I'm sure now. So sure. Sure that he loves me too. I believe him and i trust him. It makes me so happy and it gives my a balance in my inside. It's a beautiful feeling, to know, that there is someone, who loves you too. Even if it will not be like this anymore one day, then i will still be thankful and glad that i had once a person in my life who loved me and who i love too.
I love this wonderful feeling. "

This feeling what I describe above is something what it's really worth it. Sometimes we need to let us fall in something, we don't know if we will get hurt, but it's so wonderful to just let you fall...


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Leaving the worst thing or something good?

"But I have to leave and you have to release 'cause the end of something good can be the beginning of something better There's something new I know it's cruelI don't want to leave you behind But sometimes we have to go we have to go our own ways" 

The good thing about saying 'Good-Bye's is that you can look forward to see those people again. But  what should you do if you are not able to see them again? 

It is really hard, but how i said it can be the beginning of something better. At least something new.

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Intentions for the New Year

For 2013

I decided to make a list of things what I will change in the New Year:

1. I will not be selfish anymore. It's really important to me that I finally start (probably too late, but better than never) to care more about others than about myself.
2. I will concentrate on the school more. I know everybody says that every year over and over again, but I actually really have the plan to study. If you know me, You know studying is a hard thing for me. 
3. I will be nicer. It includes especially my family and my friends. They deserve a nicer me, for always being there for me.
4. I will finish a Book. I started that over and over again, but my New Goal is that i actually finish a Book now, that I finally have a whole Script then.
5. I will improve presents that I give. Less money, but more work, time and personal feelings.
6. I will read the book what my friend gave to me. I don't know why, but I love to write, but didn't even read one whole book in the last Year.
7. I will write more posts on my Blog and you are in charge to control that. I hope I will do a good job.
8. I will share more Love with everybody I meet. 
9. I will buy a New Camera and take tons of pictures of myself. Haha. Just kidding. Of others and Landscapes of course.
10. I will try so hard to abide all my NEW INTENTIONS FOR 2013!

What are your Intentions? Happy New Year to everyone! 

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